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10 Things My Greyhound Has Taught Me

6/18/2019

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For the last three years, I have been thinking of getting a dog. I was overwhelmed with the number of breeds, which slowed my search for the best one for me. One of the main reasons I wanted a dog is research has shown dogs are good for the owner's physical and mental health. As I live with depression, I was very interested to see if being a dog owner could help me.

Well, long story short, but I became aware of the greyhound breed and the need for them to be adopted once their racing careers are over. 

So, November 13, 2018 I brought Mac (who I named after the computer) home. She has brought me joy, happiness, and truly has improved my mood. I struggle far less with depression having her in my life. I'm not saying she is a miracle drug, but with the guidance from my doctors, I am now off all medication for my emotions.* 

In the seven short months this girl had been in my life, she has already expanded my understand of life and love. 

#1 Run (exercise) for the fun of it

When I adopted Mac, I knew she was used to running in her former career as a racing greyhound. But once a racer retires, some never run again. I didn't know if Mac would still want to run after retirement.  

One week after adopting her, I took her to the woods with a  friend. She seemed like she wanted to run, so under supervision, we let her off-leash. I will never be able to express in words the joy I saw in her when she took that first lap around the field. She was more excited then I had seen; and she was running for the pure love of it.

​It was breathtaking to watch. I was lucky enough to get this beautiful video taken by my Daniel Kuykendall, who happened to bring his camera that day.

#2 Sometimes you need to raise your voice to get someone's attention

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#3 Make time to play with friends

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A few months after I adopted Mac, my neighbors adopted Layla from the same greyhound adoption group! We made sure to take our time introducing them on neutral ground, and from first sniff they loved each other! We take them often to the woods to run and play together. Whenever we pass Layla's house, Mac stops cause she knows her friend is inside! 

#4 Search for a patch of sunshine and bask in it

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When the sun's out and I take Mac out for a bathroom break, she now seeks out any patch of sun she can find and plops down. Doesn't matter if it's on rocks, a plant, or concrete. When she finds her patch of sun, she basks in it.

#5 It's ok to follow

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When I leave a room, Mac always follows me to the next room. If I get up to move around the same room, she gets up too. Now, this is probably very typical dog behavior, but I also think she wants to be part of what's going on. She trust me that I will not lead her down the wrong path, and she is willing to follow. This has taught me when I find trustworthy people, it's ok to follow.

Here Mac is following me in the wood :)

#6 Make your home comfortable, no matter what others might think

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Can you find the grey?
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She loves packing paper!

#7 Enjoy each day and don't worry about tomorrow

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This is something I have learned and tried to practice throughout my life, but now I have a new reality. The lifespan of a greyhound is about 10-15 years, so it's inevitable she will die way sooner than me.

The first few months I was so scared she was going to die soon, even any day. Through a lot of prayer and conversation, I have come to appreciate everyday with her. I'm not concerned about "someday when she is no longer here" and enjoy all my time with her in the present. This new reality has also helped me with the fear of losing human life.

#8 Get excited when someone comes to visit

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Mac loves her Oma and anyone she has met before!

We are working on "no jump" because an excited 60lb jumping up on you can knock you down!

#9 Always be exploring

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Mac loves a good adventure in the woods.

#10 Relax, take a break, and just chill out

A misconception about the greyhound breed is they need a lot of walks and space to run. Well, they sleep about 18 hours a day, may or may not need to run, and just need a short walk or two.

​I don't feel bad that she sleeps all day, because I know she needs and loves it! But even with all the sleep, she loves to play (zoomies) and be silly. I have also taught her four tricks!

* Please note, I fully believe medication is a helpful tool in treating many illness, including mental illness. My medication history has been under the guidance of medical professionals. My experience is mine, and may not look the same in your life.

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Do you have a dog?

What has it taught you?
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​I would love to hear in the comments below!

11 Comments
Rita stevens
6/18/2019 08:44:46 pm

Stephanie, I love this blog. All dogs are different and I think you picked the best dog for you. And we did too!!!!

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Stephanie
6/19/2019 08:17:01 am

Thanks Rita! I would agree, we have the best dogs :)

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Leanne Sawtell
6/21/2019 06:47:54 pm

I’ve really enjoyed reading those, what a wonderful way to look at things

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Steph
6/22/2019 05:02:39 pm

Thanks Leanne :)

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Vicky K. Corey link
6/21/2019 07:55:27 pm

I don't have any pets of my own, but I live right next door to my sister and we're on the same piece of land. Her two shepherds come running when they here my door close and follow me wherever I'm going. They so brighten my day! I keep treats for them and if I leave my door open I'll turn around to 2 faces standing in my door waiting for one!!

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Steph
6/22/2019 05:03:42 pm

That's so sweet! Thanks for sharing Vicky :)

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Arlene Shanaberger
6/29/2019 02:19:27 pm

Thank you for adopting a Grey Hound. I feel so bad for those dogs. I have a wonderful dog - Delilah - mixed breed (?). She and her brother just showed up at my door one day - both starving and full of worms. My neighbor ended up taking Samson and I kept Delilah. That was almost 10 years ago. She is the sweetest dog ever....I love her so much. She always cheers me up when life gets rough. I just discovered your MotherDaughterprojects….and love it already. Can't wait to watch more of your DIY shows. Thank you - and thank your Mom for me. I think dogs are awesome people....LOL

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Steph
6/30/2019 02:45:48 pm

Thanks so much for sharing Arlene! Dogs are the best people :)

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Anne
7/16/2019 09:06:37 am

As someone who has owned several greyhounds over many years (I have two now), and has been in greyhound rescue nearly the whole time, I appreciate the beautiful Blog you have here! They are an amazing breed--so fun and loving--and I wish you many years with Mac.

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Stephanie
7/17/2019 06:22:17 pm

Thanks so much Anne! Hug your greys for me :)

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Paul Vergara link
7/20/2022 11:11:20 am

We made sure to take our time introducing them on neutral ground, and from first sniff they loved each other! We take them often to the woods to run and play together. Thank you, amazing post!

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